My
wife and I have been brought together over vast distances, and
against all reasonable odds of coincidence, to the fossil-crusted
cliffs of Blue Beach for, it appears, a much larger purpose. But
could it really be because we have made this contract with fate, and
isn’t FATE just a word ?
Fate
or no, this is some of the story of Sonja’s moving to Wolfville,
still a fateful choice. Afterwards, neither she nor the Valley would
ever be the same…
While
she had still been walking around the Province, people started
hearing about what she was doing; some would meet her along the
route, some would join her to walk for a ways. One woman who did this
unknowingly served her up life’s first curveball, altering the
future I think, by becoming her friend.
The
woman soon introduced Sonja to her eighty-six year old grandfather,
Fred Salzman. He had been reading about it all along in the papers.
When Sonja mentioned she had applied to the local university, and may
soon need an apartment, Fred was delighted and said he would help
find her one. Once she found out, she had to talk to him before she
started looking around. One estimate suggests Fred owned over twenty
apartments in town, so the offer was certainly very encouraging. So
when Sonja received the letter from the Acadia School of Music
Studies, she promptly hiked back up the hill to Fred’s place.
At
first it turned out there were no apartments available, however,
Fred’s grand-daughter was moving out of hers in a few weeks’ time.
“Look””, he said, “why don’t you just stay here for now ? I
have this place all set up, and you’d have your own little room,
you won’t have to go anywhere ‘till your other apartment’s
ready.” Sonja envisioned her sheepdog Sampson
in this neat and very antique house; all the bone china he’d
collected. She politely tried to object because of the dog, but Fred
brushed it off and practically insisted.
By
the time the new apartment became available, Fred’s family wanted
Sonja to stay on as their father’s caregiver. They were astonished
how Sonja wasn’t going out of her mind with dad, and that he
absolutely adored her, something rare. They had tried to find
professional help more than once, and desperately wanted her to say
yes.
By
the time Sonja began her music studies, she was not only coping with
the unimaginable Fred, she was beginning to interface with McCluskey
Two (the previous blog). Sonja has always seemed to be attached to
one cause or another; some of those causes are people.
Fred
wore a hearing-aid which needed to be turned up full blast before he
got any inkling what it was you were saying. He had the biggest
console-TV money could buy at the time, all carved wood with enormous
speakers inside. The volume was always turned all the way up to watch
his favorite show of all: Bob Barker and The
Price is Right.
Fred thought Bob was terrific, this was how life should be, always
giving people stuff - everybody so happy ! However, he wouldn’t
turn down the hearing-aid, and it would be feeding back from the TV
and squealing like an angry tea kettle until Sonja turned it off for
him.
With
the severe deafness that comes with old age, Fred spoke
embarrassingly loud in public. They went to a bonspiel where they
were giving out the awards for all the curling teams. Fred just loved
curling too, and was so proud of his new live-in, Sonja, he got them
a pair of tickets. There were lots of speeches, and Fred wasn’t
able to hear. “What the hell is that feller going on about ?”,
causing many heads to swivel. Sonja did her best to get through it.
The
first time Sonja lived with Fred for about three months, and she
attended Acadia. Soon she started looking for a rock band to join.
She auditioned at a gig in Berwick one night, got the job, and on the
way home they were in the accident. Sonja returned from the hospital
four months later, and Fred had fixed-up the apartment underneath him
so she could stay. She also joined the band that who hired her, but
were denied just as she was by the fateful accident. Sonja Wood would
live below Fred for almost three years, right up until she built her
new home and was ready to move to Blue Beach.
There
were lots of day-to-day emergencies with Fred of course. He needed
his daily ride to town. He never kept groceries in a fridge; bought
everything fresh daily. His son was supposed to do the driving but
was always late in Fred’s opinion (it wasn’t a happy arrangement
for either). One day when his son was late, Fred started cursing and
headed out the door. Sonja figured he was just stepping out to wait,
until she heard the car starting.
The
car started immediately, but Fred of course couldn’t hear anything
and kept holding the key on. The starter was complaining so loudly,
Sonja could hear it getting ready to meltdown all the way back to her
bedroom. It took less than a minute to get into the wheelchair, push
herself down the hall, to reach the kitchen window where she could
look out. She got there just in time to see Fred going for the
gearshift.
Putting
it into drive, the car shot forward and hit the rose garden; coming
to rest once it could go no further. Fred cursed some more and put it
in reverse, backwards down the driveway at a reckless speed. Fred
always had to have big cars, like Cadillac’s or Monte Carlo’s,
built like a tank. Considering the holes in Fred’s driveway, which
the car lurched and bounced through with ease, he probably needed the
extra suspension. He just kept backing up and nearly hit the white
house where his son-in-law lived, then turned downhill, crossing the
yards. When he saw the hedges coming, Fred at last veered over, back
into the street.
He
survived the two block drive down the street to safely arrive at his
son’s house. Half the neighborhood was out of their houses by this
time. Everyone knew Fred’s driving was horrific, had always been
so.
Well told ... and very entertaining.
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